False Dilemma

False Dilemma

False Dilemma

False Dilemma is a cognitive bias that presents only two opposing choices when more options actually exist. It simplifies complex problems into binary outcomes, which limits decision-making, obscures nuance, and restricts creativity.


Recognizing false dilemmas helps uncover better solutions and avoid misleading arguments.

HOW IT SHOWS UP

Strategy

  • Framing decisions as “scale or die” instead of considering strategic pacing

  • Reducing business models to “enterprise vs consumer” when hybrid models may work

  • Assuming a team must be either fast or thoughtful without designing for both



Product


  • Framing features as “build now or never” instead of evaluating timing and alternatives

  • Positioning roadmap priorities as “either tech debt or new features” instead of balancing both

  • Treating customer feedback as “satisfied or unsatisfied” without exploring deeper context



Design


  • Pitting usability against aesthetics instead of exploring how they support each other

  • Assuming there’s only one “right” layout or structure based on precedent

  • Choosing between simplicity and completeness instead of layering complexity appropriately


Leadership


  • Presenting decisions as “protect the team or deliver results” instead of doing both

  • Assuming feedback must be either positive or negative, rather than mixed and developmental

  • Treating dissent as disloyalty rather than a sign of healthy disagreement


WHEN TO USE THIS MODEL

Roadmap Reviews

Apply this when stakeholders try to reduce choices to all-or-nothing tradeoffs. Reframe the conversation with additional viable paths.


Retrospectives

Use when team members present overly simplistic postmortem takeaways. Acknowledge the middle ground and expand the problem framing.


Team Conflict Resolution

Use this to surface the third or fourth option when team members are polarized. False dilemmas often show up in emotionally charged settings.


Executive Communication

Helps when conveying complex issues upward. Avoid presenting only extremes and instead prepare multiple clear scenarios.


HOW TO APPLY IT

Reframe the Options

When someone presents only two choices, ask “what are we missing?” Actively surface alternatives that haven’t been considered.


Map the Middle

Push beyond the binary by identifying gradients, partial solutions, or layered approaches.


Spot Manipulative Framing

Watch for scenarios where someone reduces complexity to force a decision. Pause and name the false dilemma to reopen the field.


Model Non-Binary Thinking

In your own presentations and problem framing, avoid either-or language. Show your team how to operate in the gray areas where better answers live.



Reframe the Options

When someone presents only two choices, ask “what are we missing?” Actively surface alternatives that haven’t been considered.


Map the Middle

Push beyond the binary by identifying gradients, partial solutions, or layered approaches.


Spot Manipulative Framing

Watch for scenarios where someone reduces complexity to force a decision. Pause and name the false dilemma to reopen the field.


Model Non-Binary Thinking

In your own presentations and problem framing, avoid either-or language. Show your team how to operate in the gray areas where better answers live.



Reframe the Options

When someone presents only two choices, ask “what are we missing?” Actively surface alternatives that haven’t been considered.


Map the Middle

Push beyond the binary by identifying gradients, partial solutions, or layered approaches.


Spot Manipulative Framing

Watch for scenarios where someone reduces complexity to force a decision. Pause and name the false dilemma to reopen the field.


Model Non-Binary Thinking

In your own presentations and problem framing, avoid either-or language. Show your team how to operate in the gray areas where better answers live.



Reframe the Options

When someone presents only two choices, ask “what are we missing?” Actively surface alternatives that haven’t been considered.


Map the Middle

Push beyond the binary by identifying gradients, partial solutions, or layered approaches.


Spot Manipulative Framing

Watch for scenarios where someone reduces complexity to force a decision. Pause and name the false dilemma to reopen the field.


Model Non-Binary Thinking

In your own presentations and problem framing, avoid either-or language. Show your team how to operate in the gray areas where better answers live.



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